worried moment after a retro around the break room, our holiday rush chat went sideways at the employee store, and now I'm stuck on perk. I keep hearing diffreent versoins depedning on who you ask, which is honestly exhausting. I found it useful to separate facts from 'feelings' in my notes so I don’t spiral. If you’ve been thorugh this before, what did you wish you did earlier? Drop advice, reality checks, or even just commiseration.